Updating it all

As the days go by, I try to come to some sort of agreement with the other family members who have an interest in the Blue Heron Ranch.
The security of this land and the Zendo and retreat center on it have been threatened these past few months. That's only as far as I have been aware of it, but it may have roots earlier.
I asked my mother and father what plans they have for the land, more than a year ago. And they didn't have any, except to continue to live on it, and hope to keeping. But then my mother bought a house in town, and I thought we really should work out some plan to make a transition to any sort of upkeep or
Anything else that needs to be done to gradually let us kids be more and more regularly involved.
Over the last year I talk to my parents and sister and brother quite rarely.
They blame and shout at me whenever I do.